The Two Yeses: How to Know What's Truly Yours

When an idea or an opportunity arrives, how do you know if it is really yours? Beautiful soul, let me teach you one of my favorite discernments. I call it the Two Yeses.

There is a divine yes, and there is a borrowed yes.

The divine yes feels alive. You are a little excited and a little scared at the very same time. Your stomach flutters. Part of you wants to throw up, and still you know, deep down, you cannot not do it. That trembling, alive feeling is your soul saying, this one is mine.

The borrowed yes feels different. On the surface it may look wonderful. Underneath, it feels heavy, or dutiful, or a little off, like you are saying yes because you should, or because someone else expects it. That yes belongs to someone else’s dream.

Learning to feel the difference is one of the most freeing things you will ever do. Notice which invitations give you that excited-and-scared flutter. Do not talk yourself out of your first response. First thought, best thought. Those quiet, thrilling hits of knowing are your guidance, and they are almost always right.

Magic begins from within.
xx Love,
Debra

✦ P.S. When you can feel the difference between the divine yes and the borrowed one, everything shifts. Take the free 3-minute quiz and discover the archetype guiding your yes right now.

About the Author

Debra Larson is a Transformation & Intuitive Guide, Coach, and Author. She empowers conscious creatives, heart-centered leaders, and awakening entrepreneurs to embody their soul’s most aligned path — one of love, presence, and purpose. Through her work, Debra bridges the metaphysical with the practical, guiding others to integrate spiritual truths into their everyday lives and businesses. She believes your infinite potential is not only meant to be realized but lived here and now. Explore her services, receive free resources, and join her community at www.DebraLarson.com | YouTube: @debralarson.